There were many people that were sympathetic to the slaves in 12 Years A Slave, but they weren't willing to commit to change despite their religious upbringings. Their inconsistent behavior ended up doing more harm than good. It further perpetuated this false image that everything was okay. In the movie, the character, Armsby, discussed the inner conflict of being a slave overseer. In order to cope with the atrocities he was committing and still see himself as a decent person, he needed to believe slaves were unhuman as well as consume copious amounts of alcohol. He demonstrates a classic example of cognitive dissonance, holding two opposing views at the same time creates tension that needs to be addressed.
I also look at the Jonathan Martin situation and see a lack of commitment. Martin left the Miami Dolphins after allegedly being bullied by teammates. Other athletes had to know what was going on, but they didn't say a thing or didn't say enough.
Eddy Merckx, the greatest cyclist ever, is the perfect example of 100% commitment. Every race he entered, he gave his utmost. If there was an opening, he made a decision and committed to it. By committing fully to his decisions, he was able to break through mental barriers and achieve greatness.
I believe raising children is the same way. One must be consistent and assertive. Young children are not fully developed intellectually, hence they need someone to guide them.
God also calls us to commit to Him. Just like parents know more than children, God knows more than us. In turning our lives over to Him we gain freedom. We become free from the pointless worries about money and status. Free from cognitive dissonance and anxiety.
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